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20 Minutes…

Chart & Daddy goofing around!

Chart & Daddy goofing around!

What did you do with it today? I took a walk on a glorious day. I did it without oxygen. I had a lot on my mind. I really felt the warm sunshine dig into my shoulders. It made me think of Vitamin D, and that everyone should take it. I made sure I felt each breath. I thought about my cancer, and the fact that I have another scan coming up in 12 days. I cried about that. I thought about how lucky I am that my parents were back at home to take care of me. I cried about that too. I’ve been crying a lot more lately, not sure why. I want to live, I really, really, do. I cried again, but then I thought about Charlotte, and I smiled. I’ve had almost 6 years with her. She knows me. She has concrete memories of me. I used to worry that I would be gone too soon for her to remember anything about me.  That doesn’t worry me any more. And that’s what makes me smile.

 

Love is like oxygen, you get too much you get too high, not enough and you’re going to die. I’ve got all I need.

 

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Like Daddy…

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…Like Daughter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Let the Goofy Face Games begin!

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Uh oh. Charlotte’s taking the lead.

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Edvard Munch has got nothin’ on Charlotte!

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We’re taking it public!

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Chart & Me wrap it all up with pretty pink bows!

19 Responses to “ “20 Minutes…”

  1. Brenda MacLean says:

    Hi Mike
    I sent you an e-mail when you first started this blog.
    You, Jennie and Charlotte are in our daily thoughts and prayers.
    We feel blessed and thankful that you are allowing all of us who love you to accompany you on this journey. You inspire us and we are proud to know you.
    Love
    Brenda and Don

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers. I’ve always tried to model myself after the great ones. And you two truly are. I miss those young and innocent days of “scissors Santa and SNAFU” :)

  2. Steve Hayworth says:

    Hey Doe, love the pics! Keep on keepen on my brutha.. every day is a blessing. You have a beautiful family.

    Having breakfast with dear friend of mine in produce biz tomorrow.. He also has cancer. I think he has good attitude like you do. He plays in a blues band and also is enjoying life.

    Continue to live and love dude!

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Thank you my brutha, for your support. I miss you big man, feel like giving you a big ol hug my friend. We (T and Will), are going to be in Santa Barbara on 5/17 and 5/18, doing a little “Sideways” tour on the 18th. Come on up if you are around at all. Shoot me an email if you are interested. Love you bro!

  3. Laura Henderson says:

    Oh Mike, when I read your post I cried too. Yes LIVE, hold onto life with every fiber of your being. You are so strong and touch so many lives in such a profound way. You keep holding on my friend and I will do the same!

    Loved the pictures, keep them coming.

    Sending many good thoughts and prayers your way,
    Laura

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Dear sweet Laura, I’m holding your hand, you and I will fight together with every breath we take. Thank you for being my friend :)

  4. Chris Mihm says:

    Awesome post Mike…Loved the links from the email! Natalie and Charlotte need to get together soon as it seems our daughters are in the exact same goofball stage. Let’s make DC happen if we don’t meet up on the west coast.

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      You got it C Mihm, maybe we can get the girls to do some lobbying with us and knock some sense into that legislative body we call Congress. Go Warriors baby!!

  5. Tracey says:

    Love the matching bow headbands! Nothing makes me sappier then seeing a dad playing “dress up” with his little angel. Pure love! Lifting you up and reaching across the miles with an everlasting embrace and pure love. Let me know when you head this way…. remember, you promised! Love to you and your girls.

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Sending my love right back at you, TD. I promise to call next time I’m in town, but only if I’m home for pleasure not business :)

  6. Siobhan says:

    Great post Michael! Twenty minutes! What a wonderful lesson. Twenty minutes at a time we march on into the future…however long that may be…but for the NEXT twenty minutes we are PRESENT. (: xoxo to you and yours

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Thank you for all of your support, sounds like you are doing great, and remembering to stop and smell the roses along the way!! (bad 70’s song by Mac Davis)

  7. Michelle Feldman says:

    The faces cracked me up! Charlotte sure does take after her Daddy. :) The headbands are the best. Ha! What a gift to breathe in and live each moment. So many people don’t.

    I’ll be with you in thought and prayer on scan day, Mike. Give all my best to Jennie, your Mom and Dad, and of course, our special, silly girl.

    “Not all tears are meant for sadness. Sometimes we cry with the richness of life…sometimes in gratitude.”
    xo

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Hi Michelle,

      You always have the right quote for the right occasion, thanks for your thoughts and prayers on scan day.

  8. Jan Heine Irons says:

    Michael,
    Keeping you and your beautiful wife and daughter in my thoughts. Family is everything, and you have such a great support group! I’m kept my Mom in the loop since your Mom told me about your blog. Love this site, and your outlook! Healing thoughts to you, little cousin!

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Hi Jan, thank you for your lovely note. I really appreciate the support coming from good ol Lodi :) Tell your mom I love her and miss her much. All the best to you and your family.

      • Jan Irons says:

        Actually, we moved to Central Oregon, but talk to Mom
        every day and soon will talk using Skype. She’s getting a webcam from me for Mother’s Day! I’ll give her your love when I call her today!

  9. Robin says:

    Great post Mike. Thanks for sharing all you are going through. We are all behind you 100% and thinking of you as you keep on this journey. My sister got to hang w your sis last week at a Giants game. : )

    • Mike Dougherty says:

      Hi Robin, thanks for you heartfelt words of support, and what a small world after all, where our sisters are hanging out too. You must be getting anxious for one of those priceless East Coast summers :)

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